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Reflecting on Building Relationships

Family, relatives, business relationships are essential to me, thanks to these relationships, they help me to survive difficult times or to enjoy my good moments. It is important to me that I have people that I can trust both in good and bad times. The most crucial positive relationship I have is my husband.  It is a source of motivation, thank goodness, and power for me to see him wake up as health every day after his health problems. I always got rid of the loneliness and anxiety I felt here, with his support. He has always supported me to do something for myself (learning languages, starting school, participating in working life) since we moved here to prepare a better future for our children. Even if some things are difficult, we both resist strongly and insistently for the future of our children and our dreams of after retirement, one for the teen and the other for nine years old children. On some days we need to work harder for the natural continuation of our family relationships, we think that life is not long enough to be upset or angry at each other and we hug each other tightly.

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  1. UnknownMay 16, 2020 at 4:20 PM

    Hi Behice
    I enjoyed exploring your blog and learning more about you and your life. I also liked your pictures, you have a beautiful family. I am glad you and your husband have such a special relationship, I know it is nice to have someone that you can share things with and go through life’s events with. I commend you both for your commitment and dedication to each other. The closest personal relationship I have is with my dad since my mom passed away 10 years ago. I am thankful for him because as you stated, having personal relationships help to survive difficult times. I also think our personal relationships help us to be strong teachers and prepares us for what goes on in our classrooms. At times, I feel like our job is difficult but I truly love what I do and can’t imagine doing anything else. I look forward to sharing more with you through this platform. Great job!
    Andrea

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  2. Alexis LoweMay 17, 2020 at 8:27 AM

    You have a beautiful family. My mom always used to tell me, " Good friends are like stars" even though you don't always see them, you know they're always there. I agree our husbands are a close and personal relationship that we build to be happy and healthy, driving away all the loneliness we used to fell in the world. Having such a close bond with your husband and children is important as it keeps us from being lonely. Having alone time is necessary, but too much of it can be damaging to our mental health. Relationships help with any loneliness we may experience. Even more so, it helps us relate to others. While relating to others may not seems like something that can affect us, it has a huge impact. When you can relate to another person, it keeps you from feeling along in the world. Continue to build on your relationship with your husband and even your children, healthy relationships helps us live longer.

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  3. AriSMay 17, 2020 at 2:25 PM

    You have a beautiful family. You seem very passionate about family and I am sure that is helpful in providing services for them. Lovely post!

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